Rochester Erotic Art Festival 2022

Rochester Erotic Art Festival (REAF) I have been volunteering for the Rochester Erotic Art Festival ever since year one. The 12th event was held April 29 – May 1, 2022.  I love this event, it’s my favorite each year. I have been a vendor, a volunteer, a presenter, and more. As always, this year was… Continue reading Rochester Erotic Art Festival 2022

PTSD & Me – Part One

Hello Friends, Before you read further, please take a look at the content warning. This blog post discusses potentially triggering issues.   May is Mental Health Awareness Month. Mental health struggles affect a huge percentage of people. Yet still mental health struggles come with a great deal of shame and stigma.  As you may know,… Continue reading PTSD & Me – Part One

What To Do If You Accidentally Misgender Someone

Accidentally Misgendering, and How To Make It Right Hello Friends! The other day, I saw a friend get accidentally misgendered on a social media site. My friend corrected the person who then spent three or four good sized paragraphs apologizing, explaining themselves and asking questions. I was tempted to post to tell the person that… Continue reading What To Do If You Accidentally Misgender Someone

Aphantasia

I have Aphantasia Some of you may know that I have something that is called Aphantasia.  It isn’t something that most people know about, so I thought I’d take a few minutes to tell you about Aphantasia and how it affects me on a day to day basis.   Aphan-what?  Aphantasia.  Pronounced ay-fan-tay-sia.    Aphantasia… Continue reading Aphantasia

Up Against The Wall

Up Against The Wall: Art, Activism, and the AIDS Poster This past weekend, I had the opportunity to go hang out with some friends and we went to the Memorial Art Gallery here in Rochester, NY. This large exhibit features 165 HIV/AIDS-related posters spanning a time from from 1982 to the present.   From the… Continue reading Up Against The Wall

Avoiding Compassion Fatigue

Avoiding Compassion Fatigue Hello Friends! So earlier I was recording the Rainbow Roc radio show with the gang, and we started to discuss compassion fatigue and I thought I’d share some more about it with you all!   So what is compassion fatigue?  It describes the physical, emotional, and/or psychological impact of helping others. Very… Continue reading Avoiding Compassion Fatigue

Bullying Hurts

Stop Bullying   Hello Friends,   Before you read further, please take a look at the content warning. This blog post discusses potentially triggering issues.   I have been going to therapy in one form or another since I was a young child – probably 10 or 11 years old.  Today I am 47 years… Continue reading Bullying Hurts